3-21 No Kiddin' Recovery Podcast
3-21 No Kiddin’ began with one woman’s journey away from a bet—and has grown into an ongoing conversation about addiction, sobriety, recovery, self-care, wellness, and what it really takes to build a better life.
Creator and host Bobbie Malatesta began sharing her experience with gambling addiction and gambling recovery after placing her last bet on March 21, 2016. As her own journey evolved—including becoming alcohol-free—the podcast evolved with her.
Today, Bobbie explores problem gambling, alcohol addiction, substance use, behavioral addictions, sober living, mental and emotional wellness, personal growth, and alternative recovery modalities. Guests include people sharing their own lived experiences in recovery as well as professionals, experts, advocates, and practitioners offering different tools and perspectives for healing and healthier living.
There is no one-size-fits-all path to recovery. That's kind of the point.
Through honest conversations, personal stories, education, humor, mistakes, lessons learned, and a willingness to explore different approaches, 3-21 No Kiddin’ is about finding what works for you—whether you're in recovery, sober-curious, supporting someone you love, or simply trying to become a healthier, happier human.
What started as a podcast and personal mission has continued to ripple outward. 3-21 No Kiddin’ is now also a Recovery Playground and sober social club in Naugatuck, Connecticut, creating an alcohol-free, gambling-free adult space for connection, functional and non-alcoholic beverages, events, education, and community.
Subscribe and follow along as Bobbie continues learning, recovering, experimenting, growing—and talking openly about all of it.
Learn more: 321nokiddin.com
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Special thanks to Justin Furstenfeld of Blue October for permission to use “I Hope You’re Happy” as part of the 3-21 No Kiddin’ podcast.
3-21 No Kiddin' Recovery Podcast
Dry January Day 10- Coping With Boredom
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Episode: Coping with Boredom
Episode Overview:
In this episode, Bobbie discusses the challenges of coping with boredom during Dry January. Shares personal experiences and practical strategies to fill time without resorting to drinking. The conversation emphasizes self-awareness, community engagement, and exploring new activities.
Key Topics:
- Understanding Triggers:
- Identifying cues that lead to drinking.
- Recognizing habitual routines that may encourage drinking.
- Creating a Plan:
- Setting timers and planning activities in advance to avoid triggers.
- Importance of having a strategy before facing potential drinking situations.
- Finding New Social Circles:
- Exploring alternative social activities that don’t revolve around alcohol.
- Suggestions for engaging with new friends through events and classes.
- Community Involvement:
- Joining local groups and organizations like Phoenix and Rec Elevator.
- The benefits of volunteering and participating in community events.
- Exploring Personal Interests:
- Trying new hobbies such as cooking, crafting, or music.
- The therapeutic benefits of creative expression and self-exploration.
- Self-Reflection:
- The importance of spending time alone to understand personal feelings and emotions.
- Encouragement to explore one’s own journey and self-love.
Resources Mentioned:
- Eventbrite and Meetup for local events.
- Phoenix nonprofit for fitness and community engagement.
- Rec Elevator for sober community support.
Conclusion:
Bobbie encourages listeners to embrace their journey, explore new activities, and find joy in self-discovery. She emphasizes that learning to enjoy one’s own company is a valuable gift.
Call to Action:
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**A super special thanks to Justin Furstenfeld & UPDOWN for granting us permission to use his music on the show!