3-21 No Kiddin' Recovery Podcast
3-21 No Kiddin’ began with one woman’s journey away from a bet—and has grown into an ongoing conversation about addiction, sobriety, recovery, self-care, wellness, and what it really takes to build a better life.
Creator and host Bobbie Malatesta began sharing her experience with gambling addiction and gambling recovery after placing her last bet on March 21, 2016. As her own journey evolved—including becoming alcohol-free—the podcast evolved with her.
Today, Bobbie explores problem gambling, alcohol addiction, substance use, behavioral addictions, sober living, mental and emotional wellness, personal growth, and alternative recovery modalities. Guests include people sharing their own lived experiences in recovery as well as professionals, experts, advocates, and practitioners offering different tools and perspectives for healing and healthier living.
There is no one-size-fits-all path to recovery. That's kind of the point.
Through honest conversations, personal stories, education, humor, mistakes, lessons learned, and a willingness to explore different approaches, 3-21 No Kiddin’ is about finding what works for you—whether you're in recovery, sober-curious, supporting someone you love, or simply trying to become a healthier, happier human.
What started as a podcast and personal mission has continued to ripple outward. 3-21 No Kiddin’ is now also a Recovery Playground and sober social club in Naugatuck, Connecticut, creating an alcohol-free, gambling-free adult space for connection, functional and non-alcoholic beverages, events, education, and community.
Subscribe and follow along as Bobbie continues learning, recovering, experimenting, growing—and talking openly about all of it.
Learn more: 321nokiddin.com
Instagram: @321nokiddinsoberclub
Special thanks to Justin Furstenfeld of Blue October for permission to use “I Hope You’re Happy” as part of the 3-21 No Kiddin’ podcast.
3-21 No Kiddin' Recovery Podcast
Dry January Day 3- The Benefits of Dry January and Sobriety
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**Benefits of Sobriety:**
- Better sleep and possible improvements in blood work.
- The subjective nature of individual experiences related to sobriety.
- Noticing energy levels and physical responses to alcohol.
- **Personal Insights:**
- The speaker reflects on their experiences transitioning from alcohol to sugar and the realization of functional but unfulfilled living.
- The importance of being present and authentic after quitting drinking.
- **Weight Management:**
- The speaker shares their own struggle with weight loss post-alcohol and the challenge of replacing alcohol with sugar.
- Discusses the impact of sobriety on body awareness and emotional reactions to foods.
- **Mindset and Choices:**
- Encouragement to be patient with oneself and recognize that cravings may replace one behavior with another.
- Importance of reprogramming thoughts and maintaining a positive attitude towards choices.
- **Breaking Patterns:**
- Strategies for interrupting negative thought patterns and shifting from a mindset of guilt to one of gratitude.
- The power of self-compassion and the acknowledgment of personal achievements.
**Quotes:**
- "Alcohol is poison, right? So we're putting it in our body."
- "If you can acknowledge what the reward is, the rewards are so much more tremendous than the numbing."
- "The noise in our head can win if we let it, but we have a choice on letting it."
The speaker emphasizes the importance of understanding one's own body and mind when considering sobriety and living authentically. The discussion encapsulates personal growth, the journey of overcoming addictions, and how gratitude plays a vital role in sustaining positive changes.
Listeners are encouraged to:
- Reflect on their own experiences with alcohol and food.
- Consider the benefits and challenges of sobriety.
- Practice self-compassion and recognize the power of choice in daily habits.
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**A super special thanks to Justin Furstenfeld & UPDOWN for granting us permission to use his music on the show!